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I'm a luscious, hourglass BBW with a very sensual nature.. I love sex and love exploring new things. A long term relationship is what I want; I have tried all of the various alternawtive...and I am afraid that I am a 1 woman man...and perpetually straight...very, very, straight.. I am not interested in playing with women...at all. I am also a bit of an exhibitionist.
I am well educated, well traveled, an avid reader, an extremely accomplished cook, a singer, an actress and have many other interests outside of the obvious. I am very bright, a quick study and possess the mind of an engineer with the innate curiosity of a child. I have lived in many different parts of the country, spent a significant part of my childhood in a 3rd world country and consequently developed a deep appreciation for other cultures, as well as for my own. I don't appreciate or tolerate bigotry in any form, though U admit that I prefer latino, or mediterranean men...not exclusively, but that;s the coloring I like. I am a southern girl, a steel magnolia with a soft outer shell covering a solid core of determination and strength. My accent comes back when I am around other southerners. I work in a profession that demands physical strength and mental agility, the ability to think on my feet while controlling a volatile physical situation. When I leave work, it stays there, but those characteristics are part of my make-up and stay with me away from work to a degree. I am a chameleon, able to adapt to almost any situation or social setting. My personality is a blend of the gregarious entertainer and the shy hothouse flower.*********************PLEASE GENTLEMEN:
DO NOT SEND ME PICTURES OF YOUR COCK. IF YOU ARE A MAN I ASSUME YOU HAVE ONE; IF YOU DO NOT, I KNOW SOME GOOD THERAPISTS WHO WORK WITH GENDER IDENTITY ISSUES! I DO NOT CARE WHAT KIND OF PHOTOGRAPH YOU HAVE ON YOUR PROFILE; THAT'S YOUR BUSINESS. i DO CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU SEND ME. iF YOU SEND ME A PICTURE WITH YOUR FIRST E-MAIL IT NEEDS TO BE A FACE PICTURE. IF YOU SEND ME A COCK PIC, DO NOT EXPECT A REPLY BECAUSE YOU WON'T GET ONE.
My Ideal Person:
Updated as of November 25, 2007:
I am very attracted to well educated, intelligent, attractive, often younger(but not always), men. This does not mean pubescent! Call me hypocritical, but I very much appreciate a man who is in good shape, at least my height and handsome...tall, dark and handsome works! I am not so superficial as to discount a man because he's not Adonis but I am drawn to handsome. I am also very drawn to intelligence and the ability to articulate your thoughts. I do not want, nor can I have, more children...please don't even go there. If you have issues with spelling and grammar, please use spell check and proof read your message to me. Being able to carry your own weight in a conversation on a variety of topics is important to me as I value the friendship that should be inherent in any type of physical liaison; to me that means that we have to be able to talk to each other. Your looks are important to me but your brain and your mind are more so. I like open minded people who are non judgmental, have a positive outlook on life and can accept the differences in others and embrace them. I am not reqally open to friends with benefits, because ultimately a long term relationship is what I want; obviously, with that in mind, I am interested in single men. I value honesty and integrity and bullshitters will be kicked to the curb immediately, no second chances. Reliability is also important to me. I understand that things come up and cause people to have to change their plans at the last minute. Have the courtesy to call and tell me. I don't appreciate being stood up, as I'm sure you don't either. Don't be a flake. There are far too many on this site..
Update: January 6, 2008
I'm adding this because I feel it's necessary based on my experiences here. I want to see a picture of you, of your face and your body, and clothed is preferred but not mandatory....a current one. I'm not sure what prompts people to post photographs that bear little or no resemblance to them, or are 20 years old. If you are 60 and balding, say so and show yourself. Do you think I won't notice? Even without my glasses, I can tell. My pictures are all very recent, none more than 3 months old, most less than that and updated regularly. If you don't have a current picture to show me, get one or don't bother to contact me. I've met far too many men who are either delusional about their appearance or just plain dishonest. That won't work for me, so be straight up. I look in person exactly as I do in my photographs; what you see is what you get...if you're honest, attractive, clean, fun to be with and use your brain on a regular basis, we just might hit it off. If all you want to do is sit around and watch football, pass me by. I like men who know that learning doesn't stop until we die, that creativity encompasses many things and that exposing yourself to something new gives you more layers, more dimensions and that is sexy as hell!
AND ONCE MORE, SINCE IT DOESN'T SEEM TO BE PENETRATING FOR MANY OF YOU...DO NOT SEND ME A PICTURE OF YOUR DICK. I DON'T CARE ABOUT IT. I DON'T WANT TO SEE IT UNLESS WE HAVE MET AND I HAVE DECIDED TO PLAY WITH YOU, AND I'VE USUALLY SEEN IT ANYWAY AS SOON AS I OPEN YOUR PROFILE TO SEE IF YOU BOTHERED TO FILL IT OUT. iF ALL YOU HAVE TO SAY IS "PREFER NOT TO SAY", I PREFER NOT TO RESPOND. THAT'S JUST A COP OUT AND A WAY OF SAYING YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE, ARE SNEAKING AROUND ON YOUR MATE, OR ANY OTHER OF A HOST OF DISHONEST REASONS FOR NOT DISCLOSING BASIC INFORMATION ABOUT YOURSELF. If you're too lazy to read this, read my bling; it's all there...though on second thought, you will not have gotten this far.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Diana Krall, Rush, Pink Floyd, Jamie Callum, RoryStitt, Ozomatli,
Everything But The Girl, and...
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
This is best left for a private conversation.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, playing in the shower, the bath, almost anything with water, reading erotica to each other
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
nope, not interested; I prefer real people
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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